I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS SHIT. Like, I just don't understand it when ppl do this. Then it annoys me b/c sometimes, say, ppl show up unannounced at my BFF's house and hang out with her during some time when she previously told me she couldn't hang out. And I'll be like, WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO JUST SHOW UP RANDOMLY? UM, THAT IS RUDE. Like, no, not cool at all. I am not even okay with people who call, like, a few minutes ahead of time to say, "I am ~going~ to show up." If someone did that to me, in return, I'd be like, "Well, I am going to sit in my room and not allow you in! I'm glad we've all pre-determined what we're going to do."
My sister is one of these people who expects her friends to be available to her at any time and gets very distraught when she calls them and they don't answer the phone or won't come over and hang out with her. And, well, I guess that works for her and her friends, but I just cannot comprehend it. PRE-ORGANIZED SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS. GIVE ME AT LEAST A FEW HOURS, AND YOU HAVE TO ASK FIRST, AND I HAVE TO SAY YES, AND I HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO IF I WANT. I need my anti-social time.
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